Tuesday, October 30, 2018

Obituary

Huge thank you to Aunt KayLynn for writing this obituary! It is so beautiful and perfect for my Mom!! You captured her sooo well! Words can’t express how grateful we are for all everyone has done for her! We will forever love all of you!!

Obituary




Kimberlee Nebeker Peterson passed away peacefully with her husband, Blake, by her side, early Saturday, October 26, 2018.  Since March 27, 2018, she, along with many family members and an enormous support of friends, had been battling cancer.  Kimberlee was born in Arco, Idaho on January 22, 1976, to parents Wendell Denton Nebeker and Zora Joann Morgan who were sealed in the Logan Temple. 

Kimberlee was a very happy child!  Everyone loved her happy and bouncy, little personality. She was born with a tender heart and even as a young child was kind and compassionate.  She enjoyed many activities in her adolescence, working with her mom in the garden and especially spending time visiting the elderly and getting to know them, running track and then graduating from Fillmore High School, Fillmore, Utah.  Prior to heading to college, she earned money working construction, working hard hauling lumber, tying rebar, and building houses.  At that time she learned how to drive a stick-shift dump truck which her co-workers nicknamed a ‘jump-truck’ as it would lunge forward as she shifted. 

She met her husband, Blake, while attending her first year at Rick’s College.  There’s was a love that few find!  While Blake served a 2-year mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Kimberlee continued her education.  She enjoyed a special time after graduating from Rick’s College, living with her sister Terri and her family which had a major impact on her life, as well as their kids.  The memories made at that time are cherished still to this day.  

As has always been her way, Kimberlee effortlessly worked her way into all of our hearts and soon none of us could picture our lives without Kimberlee being a part of it.  She enjoyed a special relationship with Blake’s dad, who became another father to her long before Blake and Kimberlee were married.  Blake and Kimberlee were sealed in the Manti Temple on December 19, 1997.  After starting life in Utah, they soon moved to Elko, Nevada where Kimberlee began her life-long dream of being a mother - she describes motherhood as “My choicest calling!”  Kimberlee was an amazing wife and mother and took a leap of faith beginning with two kids in tow and ending with five kids, as her husband went back to school to be a nurse, then a nurse anesthetist.  Her adventurous spirit shown through as she and Blake met a total stranger in Kaysville, UT and exchanged cash for a garage code to a home in Michigan where they would live for the next two years.  This nine year journey took them from Moses Lake to Richland, WA, back to Flint, MI, finally landing for good in Yakima, WA.  
Kimberlee was deeply involved in her children lives and was known for pulling off legendary works of art: a pirate ship made from cardboard boxes that filled an entire room for months, a mammoth castle constructed by cardboard boxes and painted, cardboard Christmas trees for each child that also corresponded with each childs’ height, ice cream cart that has made many stops throughout the area,  painted murals in the kid’s corner at a local dentist office,  painted pictures of birds for friends she left behind in Michigan, Primary Carnivals, a reading room for her little girls-complete with painted scenery out a painted window, fireplace with a roaring fire, and countless birthday banners.  She spent one summer in Michigan, ‘traveling all over the world’ with her kids as she taught them about different cultures and made various dishes to enhance their “visits.”  Her creative/artistic talents were truly limitless as each work she created was lead by love.  She continued to develop and shared those talents in and out of the home, blessing the lives of many.

Her love of music and singing is a legacy lived on through the gifts and talents of her five children.  Whether through a melody sung, played on the piano, guitar or oboe, her children truly have their mother’s abiding love of music and turn to it daily.  If you spend any time in their home, hearing music will be a part of your visit.  Kimberlee loved cooking and had a special love for trying new foods and recipes.  She enjoyed each season of produce by canning countless jars of peaches, pears, salsa and chunky applesauce.  Kimberlee developed quite a talent for taking photographs.  Although self-taught, she excelled in taking pictures, especially pictures of individuals and families as she would capture them at their best, showing off God’s love.  In the various wards that Kimberlee was apart of, she made her talents available to bless those who may not have been able to have personal pictures otherwise - always free of charge, of course.

The most common description for Kimberlee is that of Sunshine.  She literally enhanced the lives of all she touched!  Kimberlee had a never-ending gift of love and friendship.  She was a fantastic listener.  If you knew Kimberlee, you were sure she was your best friend!  She had a way of remembering the details of people’s lives and demonstrated that by dropping them a note, flowers or a friendly visit, just when it was most needed.  The largest evidence of Kimberlee’s love and giving nature is the overwhelming amount of support, kindness, meals, comfort, people rubbing her feet, reading to her, driving kids to and fro, etc. that was returned to her over the past seven months battle with cancer.

Kimberlee served in many positions throughout her life in service of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.   From Primary, Young Women’s, Relief Society, she was a natural missionary.  She had a real talent for writing Primary Programs that would be personal for every child participating.  She had a deep testimony of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and a personal relationship with her Savior.  She knew who she was, where she came from and where she was going someday.  Kimberlee shared the following, recently in a letter to Sadee, “My life makes me so happy!  If it is long or short, my covenants have brought me greater joy then I could have hoped for.  The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is true and is lead by my beloved Savior who loves us beyond our deepest comprehension.”

Kimberlee is survived by her husband of 20 years, Blake Thomas Peterson; their children Sadee (18), Tanner (16), Eliza (13), KayLynn (11), and Addie (9); her mother, Zora Joann Nebeker; and siblings:  Wenda Jo Toland (Mitch), Rondell D. Nebeker (Karen), Rachelle Nebeker, Terri Ann Jenkins (Mike), Wendell Morgan Nebeker (Jana), IvaLou Zeigler (Matthew), David Franklin Nebeker (Jenny), Cordell Denton Nebeker (Meghan);  Kimberlee was preceded in death by her father, Wendell Denton Nebeker.

Sunday, October 28, 2018

Funeral Times

Sweet Momma returned home to her beloved Father yesterday morning at about 5 am.
We will be holding a viewing and funeral this week, and would invite all that would like to attend to come. Mom loves all of you!!! And we would love to see you!


Viewing - Tuesday 5-7 pm
1414 72nd Ave 
Yakima, WA 98908

Viewing - Wednesday 9-9:40 am
Funeral - Wednesday 10 am
705 S 38th Ave
Yakima, WA 98908

Wednesday, October 24, 2018

Dad's update: please take a chair!!!

Today's update from Blake:
Kimberlee got a unit of blood yesterday to help her anemia. We also found out her sodium is low (121), so we have been trying to get more food in her to help get that up. Her nausea was less today so she was able to eat more, still not what I would like but more. Ensure drinks seem to be helping.  Her pain is being well controlled with a Fentanyl patch, so that means fewer pain pills by mouth, so I think that will help her nausea long term. She's been enjoying the oxygen, she started that last week. She is using it less these days. Usually always when she sleeps and if she gets short of breath during the day. Please don't be alarmed by the oxygen. It really helps her.

We had an MRI of her brain yesterday. We had a baseline done in April which was "unremarkable" and that term made Kimberlee a little sad. She thinks her brain is very remarkable. Yesterday's scan showed a 6mm mass in her temporal lobe. Not too surprising. Lung cancer loves to travel to the brain. So we will keep an eye on that. There are a couple other things on the scan we don't fully understand, but we will find out more as we go. There's nothing too concerning in the scan.

We are really concerned with Kimberlee's quality of life, everyday quality. So we are doing anything and everything we can to enrich her days. Such as the chair in the picture below. The blue chair she had been using was ok but not good enough. So today we took her to a store and found a power one that really fits her body well. It's a gray color that she really likes and she really likes the power option.

Our friends and family here in Yakima have insisted that we have meals five days a week again. The kids love this, I think they hate my cooking. That's ok, I hate cooking it! We are overwhelmed by the generosity of our Yakima friends. They are a great blessing in our hour of great need. Thank you so much!!!

We would ask that you keep her in your prayers. I'm trying to get her to Maui on the 9th of November. Please specifically pray that she will have the strength and desire to fly to paradise. We have a friend's house ready for her. It would be private and beautiful!

Thanks for all you do for my special girl!

Sunday, October 7, 2018

Trips and Transfusions

Been a super long time, so here is a huge post! :) But so is the busy college life, and with that I think Eliza is going to start taking over regular posts.

Recently the family went to a BYU game with some family friends in Seattle... of course we couldn't do this when I still lived at home... but there is a first time for everything! They were about 4 rows back, and had an amazing time even though BYU got demolished (because their lucky charm aka me, wasn't there;)).











Besides the game, Mom has been pretty anemic and super tired. But a few transfusions later, she is feeling worlds better! (Also look at all those sweet cards!!)



Mom has always wanted to go Palmyra, New York. So Mom and Dad planned a trip to go! After the game though, Mom was super tired and didn't feel very good! Dad was afraid they would have to cancel the trip Tuesday night. They were planning to leave on Friday, so on Thursday both sides of the family had a fast. She got exponentially better! Fasting has such an amazing strength! Mom and Dad are currently there, and have already gone to the Sacred Grove. And the pictures that I have gotten are below!:)



Wednesday, September 19, 2018

CT Scan- No Results


Sunday, September 2, 2018

Round 6!

On Friday Mom completes her last round of chemo (hopefully)! She has a CT scan coming up, and with those results we will determine what type of treatment we will do next! We are very hopeful that the next thing will be immunotherapy!


Then on Saturday we decided to go ride bikes on one of our favorite trails in Tricities! We are so thankful to our friend that let us borrow the most amazing bike for mom! The girls came up multiple time and would ask, “Mom are you tired yet?” They should have been asking Dad! 

When they borrowed it I got this cute text from Momma! “My husband borrowed this bike to take to Richland and ride the river path there...so excited!  

I didn't know he would sit me in it and then take off to the high school where a football game is going and drive me past everyone we know...😂😂😂best was seeing Tanner and all his friends! Should have blown kisses at him...next time I'll be ready!

Memories are the molecules of eternity...want to have many for my kids...hope they see I gave them the best father ever! 🤗 life is good!! 
I felt like a giddy little school girl in the carriage...😂”






Monday, August 13, 2018

Round 5 & CT Scan Results

Last Monday Mom had a CT scan, and on Friday we got the results back. This CT scan shows that the primary tumors have shrunken a little!! This means that the doctors think the treatment is being effective for now! We will have one more round of treatment (in 3 weeks), and then scan again to evaluate the next steps of treatment!

Also, enjoy this cute picture of my Momma during her chemo treatment! This is her "chemo blanket," made by her Mom.


Obituary

Huge thank you to Aunt KayLynn for writing this obituary! It is so beautiful and perfect for my Mom!! You captured her sooo well! Words can’...